Among the Harry Potter- and Spiderwick-related treasures my daughter and nephews received for Christmas were Sharpie markers. One each of the beautiful fine felt-tip pens per kid and some lovely and smooth bristol board on which to try them out.

A few days after the Big Day, I said the G word (graffiti) in front of my nephews, and we were off to the races. My younger nephew, a sharp-as-a-whip five-year-old, immediately crouched down and penned the block letters of his name. He grabbed a box of pastels and began coloring in the spaces with each color. He understands the graffiti aesthetic as we employ it is not about trashing walls but about experiencing total creative freedom. No aunt could be happier.

My older nephew is a tad more conservative: "Aunt Sandy, graffiti's bad."

Not to worry. We broke out the Pixar how-to-draw book and sketched out Woody, Buzz, Hamm, and something named Zurg from Toy Story and were just as happy. Of course, my mind traveled to the legal walls of New Haven, Connecticut, where one is more likely than not to see cartoon characters among the graffiti tags. (We'll go there another day.)

The day wore on and the weather turned snowy, and my husband grew anxious to hit the road.

"Can I color Hamm's toes?" I asked my older nephew, hoping to bring the end to the project just a bit sooner than it would otherwise come.

"No, thanks. I'll do it." Ah, yes, the joy and pride of ownership. Of creating something you're proud of all by yourself. Of wanting, truly wanting, to work alone. No aunt could be happier.

While he colored, my daughter and the little guy moved on to Harry Potter No. 5 on DVD. In a way, though we were all very much involved in the same endeavor. We spent the afternoon plumbing the depths of our imaginations and coming up with this truth: anything's possible.

As the movie and the coloring ended, my younger nephew noticed that I had brought some red, green, and blue Sharpies just in case we needed them. He asked if they were his. I had two of each color, so I gave him one of each.

"Uncle Ed," he said as he ran to my husband, "Aunt Sandy gave me her Sharpies."

To hear him, you'd have thought it was something.

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