Like a Wave: in Memory of Craig Lundwall

From May 10, 2012

In honor of Craig Lundwall, a dear friend who died in 2001 and whose birth date is today, August 3, I offer these words from Thich Naht Hanh.

Like a wave...

A wave may seem to have a beginning and end. A wave might be seen as high or low, big or small, different or not different from other waves.
These terms--beginning, ending, high, low, more or less beautiful--they belong to the dimension called historical, but the wave is at the same time the water. Water transcends the form of the wave, the idea of beginning, ending, high, or low.

These notions apply to the wave but not to the water.
The moment when the wave realizes that she is water, she loses all her fear and she enjoys much more being a wave. She is free from birth and death, being and non-being, high or low, because when we are able to touch our ultimate dimension, we are no longer subjected to fear--fear of being; fear of non-being; fear of birth; fear of death.

This is a very, very deep practice. When you've touched your true foundation, your true nature, the nature of no birth and no death, then non-fear arises. And with non-fear, true happiness will become possible.

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  1. A fascinating way to think about life. I guess if we could think of God's promise to remember us, not only in life, but before and after life, this in itself is a form of "water" and we are the wave, here for a time but essentially also here for all time.

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  2. I think so, too. Buddhist teachers do so much to open up and make relevant Christianity for me. We're all in it together!

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  3. Great tribute to your friend.

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  4. Beautiful andf well fitting Sandy.

    Just retuned from 2 weeks cruise around the Baltics

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  5. what a lovely tribute to your friend Craig. I like the poems you dedicated to him too, in your poetry book. he is smiling back to you.

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  6. That's a lovely tribute to your dear friend Sandy ... and something for us all to think about and aspire to.

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  7. how lovely a tribute to your friend...

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  8. What a wonderful tribute to your friend.

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